Archive for November, 2011
The more time I spend around beautiful women, the more I sympathise with the challenges they have to face. When I first entered the seduction community my worldview was “Hot women have the highest sexual selection power, therefore they must have the most fulfilling sexual and romantic lives. They have it the best!”
Of course there are many positive things that go hand in hand with being an attractive woman, I’m not going to bother listing them. But there are a whole host of other negative issues the many men are either unaware of, or dismiss out of bitterness or jealousy. Being able to relate to a beautiful woman’s reality and understand the things they have to put up with gives you a huge advantage on the seduction field purely because many men do NOT understand their reality…having an understanding and empathy for the world of a beautiful women is a big plus.
A recent example: a girl I’ve been seeing moved to Australia from Iran a few months ago. She recently got a job at a family run restaurant. The owner and manager has been extra kind to her, giving her lifts home from work, giving her leftover food to take home, and even paying her $100 extra ‘for her studies.’
He kept calling her ‘sister’ and saying that all Iranian brothers and sisters have to stick together. She saw him as a father figure and felt very grateful for his help in a new country, and felt comfortable in his presence, she even called her Mother to reassure her how well she was being looked after, until…
He says to her “So I’ve been going to this massage place, and I pay them $50 an hour…you need the money more than them…why don’t you just give me a massage instead?”
So now that throws all the extra attention he’d been giving her into perspective. She tried to play it cool and said “Oh no but I don’t know how” and he kept trying to convince her, soothingly saying “Come on sister, you need the money for your studies.” She felt very uncomfortable with this and made it clear her answer was no.
The next time she was at work he took her aside and said “Hey, sorry about the other day…I didn’t mean anything sexual by it, I don’t want you to think I’m sleazing onto you…”
Now, dear readers, does that sound like something that someone with innocent intentions would say? Of course not. His guilty conscience is driving him to try to take back his obvious attempt at initiating sexual touch between them.
He went on to say “I wish I had met you when I was 20…I have just been thinking about you, watching you walk around the restaurant and wishing that I was your age and I could marry you…but I am married now and I love my wife. I’m sorry.”
So the second part of his confession is proof that he WAS sleazing onto her. Making him both a sleaze and deceptive about his intentions.
On top of this, she has a whole host of guys who she’s met since she’s arrived who keep trying to play the ‘friend’ card to get close to her. They don’t show any interest in her romantically. They keep calling her and saying “I will help you find a job” or ”I will help you with your studies!”
They think they are this:
When they actually come across like this:
Having someone offer you something with mixed intentions feels very unsettling. Imagine if someone came up to you on the street and said “Here, want $100? Take it!” how would you feel? Think about this seriously: they have no obvious motive for wanting to help you, so you suspect something weird is going on. It’s a very awkward position to be put in.
So that’s just the tip of the iceberg, a day in the life of an attractive female. Sure it’s attention, but it’s not the kind of attention she would want. Would you enjoy having to put up with these kind of awkward situations on a regular basis? What about every time you leave the house?
For a hot woman, meeting a man who will just act normally around her, treat her like anyone else, and not try to hide his attraction toward her can be an immensely refreshing and rewarding experience.
Haven’t updated for a while as I’ve been busy filming lots of infield footage and running my Month of Mayhem workshop.
This picture was too sexy for me to not share it with the world. I’ve been doing some cross promoting with other blogs and websites so I’ll have some new articles up soon!
For now enjoy this picture. Source unknown, I saw it on some forum.