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This is a report ‘lazyboyy’ wrote on http://www.melbournelair.com/forum/index.php?topic=1199.0

It was after doing my Day of Mayhem workshop, which is just a daygame version of Night of Mayhem.

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This all happened as part of Liam’s social freedom coaching, which was thoroughly amazing.

Liam was getting us to just walk up to girls with messages typed on our phones. Mine said “hey your cute, wanna be my girlfriend”. So this brunette with gorgeous blue eyes walks past and Liam directs me to approach her, I show her the message with my phone outstretched she looks at it and seems startled.  Ordinarily I probably would’ve left it at that but due to the positive energy that was flowing through the session I struck up a conversation, starting with something direct (can’t remember exactly what I said).

Something along the lines of I thought she was gorgeous and wanted to meet her so I quickly typed that message. She called me out and was rather skeptical – which led me to believe she was interested I just had to justify that she was special – and could see Liam and the other 2 guys and cottoned on to the whole caper. I told her it was about social freedom and that I do a bit of acting and it’s a good exercise for that.

After finding out she was from Lithuania the convo turned to travel and I bantered with her about Europe and South America where I’ve been, where I’m going ecetera, with a cocky funny vibe, and I suppose some sexual intent too.

At one point she said “you just want to sleep with me” to which I replied “Yes I will sleep with you, then we will get married have 2 kids, but 2 years later we will get divorced.  You can keep the kids, I’ll get the mansion in Toorak and you can keep the BMW. But then when we’re 50 we’ll meet up and our love will rekindle, we will remarry and live happily ever after…like Romeo and Juliet” All while gazing into her eyes lovingly. She replied that she has a roommate called Juliet. Anyway.. Got her number buy taking her phone and calling myself then elicited a juicy big extended hug.
After my session with Liam finished I texted her and it went as follows (sorry if the formatting is messy but you get the idea):

Me:Hey what are you doing? Lazyboy
Her: I went back home to change, cause I have work 5.30 for few hours. You? Still looking for girls  :p
Me:I only look for girls between 2-4pm so lucky u were walking then . Aww that sux how long do u have to work for.

Her: you think im lucky? Haha. Mm for few hours only. Hopefully finish before 9 :p why
Me: You’re lucky coz you have an amazing guy to hang out with after work and u may even get a nice massage to make u feel relaxed and wonderful.

Her: mm, sounds promising

Me: How about I come to your place with a bottle of wine at 9.30. Do you prefer red or white?

Her: You cant I live in hostel … but I do like white

Me: White is my favourite too. Ok how about I pick you up at 9.30 I don’t live that far from the city and we can enjoy our white wine and ill look after that tension in your back.
Her: Is that a competition between u and ur friends who’s gonna sleep with more girls? Mm even though I liked your eyes so what should I do?! Lol
Me: How did u guess?? If I win I get $1 million dollars and u get multiple orgasms. Great now I can’t stop thinking about our naked bodies together..even tho I have is that amazing hug we shared

Her: Oh really? I’m going to work now…blah blah
Me :Ok have fun at work, whatever you do don’t think about me kissing your neck.

Her: What If I do think about you kissing my neck? Lol oh well see u later.

Ect. Ect.

So anyway I pick up a bottle of Pinot Grigio, pick her up at 10. Take her to Brighton beach to show her a nice view of the city. Take her to mine. We drink wine and show each other music we like on Youtube. Finish the bottle. Chat about how cool it was that we met, and how we could’ve easily missed each other…feels like we’ve known each other for ages ect. Then we spend the next few hours engaging in intercourse. Go out for breakfast, drop her off back in the city. And seeing her again on Wednesday.

Thanks for reading!

lazyboyy

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This report is great because it shows how being direct with your intention and being confident in your sexuality pays off. It also shows that you can be flexible with how you meet and seduce women and don’t have to stick too closely to any particular style. In this case he was able to open a girl without talking at first and still lead to sex that night.

I love comparing my current sexual reality to where I was a few years ago. This story is something that is a regular and largely unspectacular occurrence to me now, but which would have blown my mind if I told my previous self what happened.

It was about 9.30 on a quiet Monday night and me and a friend were walking to a bar when we saw a blonde, mature woman wiggling her sexy ass down the street. She was a total MILF. I bid my friend farewell and ran after her.

“Hi” I said.

“Hi” she replied, trying to gauge why I was talking to her.

“You have a sexy walk.” I said sincerely.

Her face lit up, she smiled and said “Wow…thank you! That was very forward of you…”

“I’m a forward kind of person” I said honestly.

She was rolling a suitcase and asked me if I knew where the Hyatt hotel was. I told her I was pretty sure it was around the corner and that I’d walk her there. She smiled and told me that would be great. We have a very flirty and comfortable energy between us; the fact that we were both experienced meant we were relaxed in the situation. We kept strolling and she was still in a flattered and impressed state of shocked excitement. She said “You have totally made my day! My week even! A big gold star for you. Thank you so much!”

As we were crossing the road I said “Maybe I should just come to your hotel with you” while grinning mischievously.

She grinned seductively and paused to consider it. “Oh I would love that but I can’t…I just had a fight with my partner and so I’m changing hotels to go stay with a friend who’s also in town.”

“Ok, let’s just go get a drink together the. Just one” I said, thinking I could take her to a bathroom.

She grinned like crazy again and said “You are amazing! I love how forward you are! But I really can’t.”

“Ok let’s just stop and talk her for a minute then…” and leaned up against a low wall outside a park, pulling her in to embrace me.

She embraced me as my firm dick pressed against her. We stood there in silence like that for a while.

“We should kiss” I said slowly and seductively, while caressing her neck with my tongue.

Pretty much like this, if the guy was way younger, and it was night time:

This forwardness is a good example of knowing where traditional seduction rules don’t apply. I would never normally verbalize the kissing process but in this situation it was totally in context with how forward I was and took into account that she was older, more experienced and relaxed. We didn’t need to pretend like we both didn’t know what was going on, and it was sexy to her to see that I was relaxed enough to just say it like that. Her being boldly hit on bluntly by a younger man was a breath of fresh air and excitement for an older woman. The lesson to take from this is to be flexible depending on the situation.

We kissed passionately and she grinned at me, pressing herself against my boner while I was squeezing her ass.

“How good would it be to just go for one drink right now” I said, grinding myself against her. As I’m writing this I’m shocked at how normal it was for me to be pressing my hard cock against a woman I met less than 2 minutes ago in the street and openly suggesting we fuck, and her holding me, kissing me and seriously considering my proposal. I love the new reality I’ve created for myself!

We stood there on the ledge, embracing like lovers and talking about sex, me trying to get her to agree and her resisting but still staying with me and loving the validation and the energy we were creating. She kept raving about how amazing it was. “Seriously, big points for you for doing this, I’m impressed! This is great. I feel great. I love it!”

Then she said “Do you do this a lot? I hope you do. Do this to more women, they love this stuff! You would make so many women happy…”

“Is it validating to know you’re causing this?” I said, putting her hand on my boner.

“Mmmmm yeah I could feel that before…” she said, grasping at it, feeling it through my pants, pressing the tip between her fingers.

A few times I suggested going for a drink or getting a room and she’d look sheepishly at the ground, turning the idea over in her mind, then say “I can’t…but I want to…”

After about 5 minutes of talking and kissing while holding each other, she said “I really have to go…”

“I’ll walk you there then…”

We started walking through the park and there was a fountain with lights, and I said “This is so romantic, we have to stop here an kiss” so she put her bag down and we embraced and kissed again.

“We should just go in the bushes.. Over there.”

“No! We can’t!”

Remembering my bathroom handjob I said “Ok well… What if we just hug and have a happy ending…”

“No, no I really can’t…”

We kept embracing and I pulled down her top and started grabbing and sucking her tits. I felt her waist and stomach and was pleasantly surprised to find it flat and smooth. “Wow! Do you work out?”

“No! Everyone always tells me I have a good body though.”

“Wow and you’ve had two kids too! I guess that makes you a MILF!”

“Ha! HA! Wow. I can’t wait to tell my friends about this…”

We stood there embracing, kissing and dry fucking for a while longer till she decided she really had to go. As she was leaving she kept stressing how awesome it was that I hit on her.

“It’s so great! You were so forward but you weren’t weird or creepy about it…it’s really great. I hope you do this to more girls! Go do it to 10 more women please! The ladies of the world need it.”

It’s so cool that this is just another day in my life now. I’ve just made it part of my reality that I communicate with women on an honest, direct sexual wavelength and that it’s having a positive effect on everyone I interact with.

I contrast this with myself a few years ago when me kissing a girl was the biggest deal ever, I would tell all my friends about it, write long reports about it and it would dominate my headspace for weeks afterward.

Now it’s just an extension of the way I move through the universe. It feels natural for me to express my attraction to women physically. We shared a short romance and went on with our lives, charged up from the sexual energy and inspired to share those good feelings with other people, feeling positive about sex, dating and romance.