Hi. My name’s Liam, and I’m a little crazy. I’m a dating and relationships coach who specializes in helping people overcome shyness, social anxiety, confidence issues, and fear of the opposite sex. My approach is slightly off beat, but it gets results.
I wasn’t always confident myself, but I made it my goal to push through my fears and develop a solid inner strength. After undergoing this transformation myself, I’ve broken down the process of how people became more confident into simple steps, and I’ve made it my goal to pass this on to others.
I’ve been helping men and women to get outside their comfort zone and actually enjoy facing their fears for almost two years now, and I’m loving it more every day. My coaching is primarily focused on helping you with your dating life, but can apply to networking skills, career, friendships, creativity and much more.
Read on to find out about my boundry pushing workshop, aptly titled ‘The Night of Mayhem’.
Social Freedom improves your dating success
One of the biggest things that has helped me in the process of learning seduction is having a high degree of social freedom. I see a lot of guys learning seduction who are stifled by their fear of what others think of them, wanting to have the perfect approach, and worrying about how they look at the cost of taking the action needed to improve.
I’ve pinpointed this as one of the biggest things that holds guys back, slows their learning curve and prolongs the amount of time it takes for them to get the results they want.
In many cases, they already have the adequate skill set to approach, meet and seduce attractive women but they are too scared to actually implement it properly! They hesitate around, go for easy sets, don’t pull the trigger and reap the net rewards of not taking action: self-imposed celibacy.
With this in mind, I’ve designed a workshop with The Natural Lifestyles, to specifically focus on social freedom and its relation to seduction. It’s called ‘The Night of Mayhem’.
The Night of Mayhem is an infield night focused on pushing, stretching and ultimately smashing your comfort zone.
The idea is to stretch your reality to levels that you couldn’t perceive were possible. This provides you with a whole range of new reference experiences to keep your reality expanding.
I find out where your comfort zone is and go one step further.
You will be guided through 5 stages of increasingly extreme missions, which allow you to gain valuable reference experiences and prove to yourself what you are really capable of. These range from milder missions such as opening with ‘will you marry me’ to more extreme rapid escalation based stuff , right up to dancing in the street and making out with hot girls in seconds.
Once you have these experiences, no one can take them away from you. If you ever find yourself hesitating to take action, you can always think ‘hold on, I danced like a madman in from of 200 people on the street….why is talking to a girl on the train so hard? Oh wait….IT’S NOT!’
No More Excuses
This is the ultimate excuse-smashing workshop. For guys who find themselves in their head making excuses, I will come down on you like a ton of bricks and push you through the flames so you come out stronger.
Pushing my own comfort zone is something I’ve always loved doing, even before I found the community.
Because I’ve spent so long overcoming my own excuses and limitations, I am the ultimate excuse destroyer. Not only will I bluntly reject your excuse, I will break down what is driving your excuse and trace it back to the core with you.
This means that instead of just ordering you to approach, I will help uncover what the root cause of your hesitation is and provide you with strategies to deal with it long term.
So in a sense, it is an Inner Game workshop…infield. Instead of sitting around talking about what problems or blocks you have with your game, you go out infield and find them out in real time.
It’s not focused on highly technical aspects of game. Sure you will get pointers on things like tonality, body language etc but that is just secondary to the ultimate goal of improving your social freedom.
The Long Term Effects of Social Freedom
Imagine the difference between a guy learning game with relatively low social freedom compared to a guy who has a high degree of social freedom.
Guy #1 is the kind of guy that only approaches with his wingman, only approaches when he knows it will go well, doesn’t push the interaction, ejects early, waits until the ‘right time’ to approach, wastes energy worrying about why he’s not approaching etc
Guy #2 opens girls on the train, on the way to work, walking home from the gym, at the supermarket, in line to clubs, is always pushing his interactions, never ejects until he is shot down, tries new and scary openers, talks to girls who scare him but he does it anyway, etc.
In 3 months, Guy #2 is going to have:
-talked to more women
-gained more reference experiences
-lost his fear of rejection and has a healthy understanding not to take rejection personally
-learned more about game by DOING it infield as opposed to reading about it online
-discovered his inner game blocks by actually experiencing them rather than hypothesizing about them
-expanded his reality about what’s possible with women
In 2 years, who is going to be closer to meeting, dating, and fucking the kind of women they want in their life? Who is going to be dating and sleeping with their dream girl and have their dating life on track so they can focus on their other interests?
All the while guy #1 is talking to 5-10 girls a month, trawling the internet looking for that magic bullet to fix his dating life and wondering why he’s not getting any signs of improvement or results.
I’ve been running protype versions of this workshop for over a year and half now and the results have been amazing.
Some highlights include:
-Countless students kissing girls they’ve just met within 30 seconds, sometimes even on the street! One student even opened a woman by slowly approaching her, smiling, and then leaning in and kissing her wordlessly!
-Students talking to women in places they never thought was possible: trams stops, cafes, inside clothing stores.
-Me and the students starting a dancefloor on the street outside transport, having 6 Hens night party crews randomly join us, and one of the students making out with the bridesmaid in 5 seconds.
-Students getting out of the ‘safe’ conversation zone: and bringing a lot more openness, energy and excitement into their interactions. One guy did this by opening a group of 6 girls by jumping in the middle of their circle and dancing. He never would have thought it would work, but because he did it with the right energy, they loved it!
One student telling a women ‘I’m into Bondage’ within the first minute of talking to her. This sounds outrageous but because he didn’t seem creepy the girl was actually impressed by his honesty and told him she enjoyed being tied up too!
-A student throwing up from the intensity! (He had never approached direct before) He then proceeded to get 5 girls numbers that night from direct, on the street approaches.
-Another student (a 30 year old virgin) threw up, and was complaining all night. I asked him if he was going to keep being a whiner, and he said ‘I’m not a whiner…I’m not a ….hold on…I AM a whiner! That’s my problem, I just complain and don’t take any responsibility for myself! I’ve been doing that for 10 years!’ With his change in attitude that the night prompted, he went out and met a girl the next week, who he lost his virginity to and who he’s now in a happy relationship with!
-Many students using a role play opener to get ‘married’ to and kiss a girl on the street within 30 seconds of meeting her.
Accelerate Your Learning Curve – Invest In Your Long Term Growth
Social freedom is something that affects every level of your game, because it affects the very process of learning game. Getting it under YOUR control gives you an edge that allows you to accelerate your learning.
I’m not promising short-term results. Sure, some students get makeouts and phone numbers during the workshop, but that’s not really the focus.
This isn’t going to be a quick fix workshop where you come out with me and I do the work for you. This is about investing in the long term asset of social freedom and removing the blocks that are currently holding you back from going out there and getting the experiences you need to take your game to a new level.
This night will set the grounding for your evolution to a trigger-pulling guy and accelerate your learning curve.
For more information or to book your spot in the next workshop email me at [email protected]
To lock in your place make a deposit of $250 to:
The Natural Lifestyles Pty Ltd
BSB: 063 307
AC: 1022 3438